A Realization and Transformation of Ridiculous Beliefs and Behaviors
Simply Ridiculous didn’t start out as a book, but as a process of self-inventory as I was looking at why my life wasn’t working. As I owned my stuff, it became funnier and funnier. When I shared it with my family and friends, they all laughed and commented that it seemed like the list of their life blunders too!
We’re all having the human experience and I’ve discovered that it’s easier to laugh about it together than cry about it alone. As I’ve grown, I’ve learned to notice my old programming and the unconsious mechanisms that held me in bondage. I call this my “ridiculous self.”
NEWS FLASH: The past doesn’t exist and there is no reason for me (or anyone) to keep painful, ridiculous old stories and experiences alive in my head or my heart.
Now I’m creating my new self – one that I love! So when I see my old “ridiculous self” rearing up, I ask, “Am I being ridiculous?” If so, I chuckle and I choose to take the high road. Humor is a healing balm and laughter is the mantra that serves me. Now instead of creating such a drama of my life, I choose to see Divine humor in nearly everything.
I’m on my own unique spiritual path, finding my way through this complex and often confusing labyrinth called life. I’ve learned that I create my moment by moment existence through the thoughts I choose to hold in mind and heart and that I AM THE CAUSE OF EVERY MATTER IN MY LIFE. Without exception.
It is my hope that other readers too will recoginize themselves in some of these pages, stop the ridiculous madness and LIGMO! Let It Go. Move On! We’ve got work to do, and a world to save. Let’s start by saving ourselves from the ridiculous programming that keeps us living small.
In order to gain access to our genius ability we must first LET GO of everything that is SIMPLY RIDICULOUS! That means learning how to LIGMO! – Let It Go. Move On!
Often what gets in the way of us achieving great things are messages that we’ve internalized about ourselves that contradict the truth of who we are. We are miraculously made! Simply Ridiculous didn’t start out as a book but came about as a result of recognizing my own self-limiting beliefs and behaviors and making the choice to let them go and start creating my life and becoming the person I wish to be.
This picture book is profound and invites everyone to look at their own unbecoming behaviors, and barriers to a highly satisfying and successful life. Things like finger-pointing, blaming, judging and making others bad and wrong are Simply Ridiculous!
The most successful people in life learn to take responsibility for their thoughts, feelings and actions. We must move out of emotional immaturity and develop emotional self-management tools so that we can mature emotionally along with our higher order thinking skills. That is the crux of what this work is about.
We all have blind spots and the fun of this work is to confront and uncover unbecoming behaviors that are often hidden from our sight. We learn through feedback loops and this work provides unique opportunities and exercises to develop our intra-personal intelligence. In order to know and relate to others, we must also learn to know ourselves.
I believe that we’re all having the human experience and it’s easier to laugh about it together than cry about it alone!
Enjoy the story of MeMe as she works through the Simply Ridiculous madness and transforms her attitudes and behaviors to unfold as she is destined to. Be with her on the journey and notice her heart as you read and as you watch the transformation take place, consider your own life challenges.


